I am a provocateur, I challenge others as much as I challenge myself.
I've been in the lifestyle since my early 30's and I will not bore you with some romantic memory about how I discovered my sexuality through early childhood experiences, because I didn't have any of those.
At least I do not remember any.
I went through a series of relationships that didn't work out during my mid 20's and I found out through some soul-searching and the early Internet that I was drawn to submissive women.
Finally it felt like I had discovered who I really was.
I also discovered that I wasn't alone and I felt that I belonged to the tribe of people that shared the same sexuality as me. I indulged myself in everything I could find about BDSM and I met wonderful people who taught me a lot of things. Some of them are still my closest friends while others have left the world of the living.
I am open about who I am, the closet has never been a favorite place of mine, and I enjoy the educational part of BDSM. I have participated in a national TV-documentary about BDSM and I have been the chairman of a local chapter within RFSU (Swedish Association for Sexuality Education). I do classes on electro play and act as a mentor on a regular basis.
I do not mind helping people who are new to BDSM, I want them to feel the same belonging that I did when I discovered who I was. Sexuality is not a choice, it is a way of life.